Pumping the gas and brake at the same time?
Pumping the gas and brake at the same time?
One of the questions that I get a lot about Mind-Body work is this: I’ve always WANTED a baby. I know that I have ALWAYS wanted one. Why isn’t that enough?
To answer this, let’s go back to the basics.
From a Mind-Body perspective, fertility issues (just like any other physical diagnosis) arise out of blocks in the body created by subconscious emotions/conflicts/ beliefs/etc. The key here is that they are subconscious – you might be aware of a pattern, but you might not be aware of how deep or intense it is.
As a result, it is as if you are trying to drive with one foot firmly on the gas (your desire to have a child) and the other firmly on the brake (the subconscious blocks). Very hard to get anywhere when you are going and stopping all in the same moment.
And, it’s really draining because you’re pouring everything you’ve got into pressing the gas pedal, while your body is pouring everything into blocking the effort.
The question then is: Why am I pumping the brakes?
Here are a few questions to get you started finding the answers. Before answering them, take some time to quiet your mind, take several deep breaths, connect to your inner wisdom. Answers may flow right away, or you may find that answers float to the surface of your mind when you are doing other mindless tasks, like doing the dishes or taking a shower:
- I NEED a baby because ________________
- I DON’T want a baby because_________________
- When I have a baby, ______________ will change
- I REFUSE to parent like _________________ because
- I can’t trust my body because ____________________
- I deserve to have what I want because _____________________
- I don’t deserve to have what I want because _____________________
- It’s not safe to be happy because_____________________
- MY theory is ___________________________
If you would like assistance uncovering and releasing your personal blocks, let’s set up a session to chat about working together. Simply reply to this email and we will set up a time.
