Common Fertility Blocks
Common Fertility Blocks
If you aren’t receiving what you want, chances are you have underlying beliefs that are keeping you from receiving in that area of your life. The unconscious beliefs are creating conflict with what you consciously want. Kind of like stepping on the gas AND the brake at the same time – your car can’t go anywhere.
What might those beliefs be about regarding conceiving?
In my 23 years of experience in working with women to help them create the family they desire, I have noticed certain themes in these beliefs that were blocking their ability to conceive:
Body
Will it be safe for you to go through a pregnancy?
How hard will pregnancy be on your body image?
Sexuality
Beliefs developed from trauma or abuse
Comfort with your body’s cycles.
Knowing that having sex is safe.
Feminine vs Masculine energy
Are you able to receive?
Can you receive without feeling guilty or needing to prove you’re worthy first?
Can you exchange the driving, striving, pushing energy with allowing, receiving, and nurturing?
Baby’s health
Fear that the baby won’t be healthy
Significant fears and worries about being able to keep your child safe
Family history
Wanting to be like / not like parents
Work/Life Balance
Will you be able to be the parent you want to be and nurture what’s important to you as an individual, including career?
Relationships
Will a baby come between you and your partner?
Who do you want to be as a Mother?
General Themes
Perfectionism
Flow of life: is life hard / struggle vs joy/ease – are you willing to allow what you want to come with joy and ease?
Sometimes treatment is enough to overcome conflicting beliefs. But, if treatment hasn’t been helping…or if you want to take a more natural approach, learning your underlying blocks (and how to release them) can open your body in a new way.
Of course, everyone is an individual. My invitation to you is to sit with the list and see what resonates and what comes up for you.
Are you ready to explore, identify, and heal the roots of your infertility?
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I work with women all over the world and I would love to work with you to create your family.
